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Wow—100 episodes! I can’t believe we’re here already. It feels like just yesterday we were recording our very first episode. It’s been such a ride, and we couldn’t have done it without all of our listeners who tune in week after week. So, to celebrate this major milestone, we’re doing something really special. We’re sharing our top advice from the past 100 episodes. These are the lessons we live by, the tips that have stood the test of time, and the pieces of advice that we hope will resonate with you as much as they do with us. So whether you’re navigating the dating world, trying to improve communication with a partner, or just working on self-love, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes life has a funny way of circling back to people we thought we’d left behind. Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s a little tricky: dating your ex. Is it a mistake to revisit old flames, or could this actually be your second chance at something great? We’ve all been there, scrolling through our social media or coming across an old photo, and suddenly wondering, “What if?” Timing plays such a big role in relationships, and sometimes it really wasn’t the right time back then. But—before you go rushing to send that text, there are a lot of things to consider! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Relationships can sometimes feel heavy with responsibilities and routines, but they don’t have to be! Today, we’re talking about how to “grow young” with your partner—a mindset that keeps your relationship exciting, light, and full of life. Growing young together is about so much more than just staying physically fit—though that helps. It’s about staying curious, trying new things, and maintaining that sense of fun and wonder that makes life together feel like an adventure. Let’s explore how couples can embrace youthful energy while growing as individuals and partners. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Let’s face it, dating can be exhausting, especially as we get older. You start to wonder—how much time should I give this person before I know if they’re right for me? When do I stop giving chances and just cut the cord?  Today, we’re going to unpack that tricky balance between giving someone a fair shot and knowing when it’s time to walk away. When you’re holding onto him, you might be missing out on someone great. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dealing with a partner who comes off as too needy can be tricky. On one hand, their constant attention and affection might feel reassuring at first, but over time, it can start to feel overwhelming or even suffocating. This raises important questions about compatibility. Is their need for closeness a sign of deeper insecurity, or are they simply more emotionally expressive than you? In this episode, we’ll explore when neediness becomes a dealbreaker and when it's something you can work through together. Should you address it head-on and have that tough conversation, or is it better to step back and walk away? We’ll talk about how to handle these situations, why they happen, and how to figure out what feels right for you moving forward. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike

Love it or hate it, Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Whether you’re single, newly seeing someone, or in a long-term relationship, it’s one of those holidays that can bring a mix of excitement and pressure. The good news is, you can celebrate Valentine’s Day in a way that feels authentic to you. In this episode, we’re breaking it down: how to make the most of Valentine’s Day no matter your relationship status, avoid unnecessary drama, and focus on what’s really important—love in all its forms, whether it’s for yourself, your friends, or your partner. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When we think about relationships, there’s a lot of talk about what we want in a partner. But let’s flip the script today—what do you bring to the relationship? Whether it’s dating someone new or building a stronger connection with someone you’ve been with for years, this question is essential. Are you enhancing their life? Are you contributing to something bigger than just the day-to-day?  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating can feel like a job sometimes—one that’s repetitive and even a bit exhausting. But here’s the thing: dating is all about attitude. How we approach it changes everything. At the end of the day, dating may have ups and downs, but that’s just part of the journey to finding someone amazing. Staying inspired comes down to seeing it as an opportunity, even when things don’t go perfectly. A positive mindset can truly shift how you experience dating, making the search feel like an adventure rather than a chore. In this episode, we’ll help you back that spark, getting creative and adding a touch of excitement back into the process Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Food can be a major bonding experience in relationships, but when two people have different dietary preferences, it can add unexpected stress to dating. Think about it—if you’re a vegan and he’s ordering steak, or he’s a foodie, but you’re a picky eater, these differences may feel small at first. Over time, though, they can add up and create real friction, especially if food is something that brings him joy. Food can play a huge role in daily life. Whether it’s a romantic dinner, cooking as a couple, or trying new restaurants, food can bring two people closer—or it can drive them apart. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, the question of age often comes up—how old is too old? The answer isn’t straightforward, as it depends on factors such as your stage in life, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and how flexible you’re willing to be. Age can play a role in compatibility, but it’s far from the only factor.  It’s important to recognize that the “right” age range isn’t one-size-fits-all—it’s something you need to personalize based on your own life circumstances. Whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, your approach will naturally evolve over time. Expanding your dating pool by adjusting your age range might even open you up to new, exciting possibilities you hadn’t considered before. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photogr

In today’s dating world, it’s easy to feel like you're just another face in the crowd. But here’s the thing—standing out and becoming someone he genuinely wants to date isn’t about playing games or changing who you are. It’s about being the best version of yourself, living a full life, and making sure you bring something valuable and unique to the table. In this episode, we’ll discuss how to highlight your best qualities, show your true personality, and make a lasting impression that keeps him coming back for more. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

When it comes to dating, we can sometimes find ourselves stuck in a routine, only saying "yes" to people who check off a narrow list of preferences. But what if expanding your horizons could actually bring you closer to finding the right person? In this episode, we’re going to explore how to step outside of your comfort zone in dating—whether that’s trying different backgrounds, locations, or even rethinking what you’re attracted to. By making small changes, you could be giving yourself more opportunities to meet your perfect match. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Sometimes, getting a second date can feel confusing, but it often comes down to a few key areas. From how you present yourself to how engaged you are during the date, these factors play a significant role in whether someone is interested in seeing you again. In this episode, we’ll break down the reasons you may not be getting a second date and what you can do to improve your chances. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Couples therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and strengthening a relationship, but it also comes with its own set of challenges and considerations. For many couples, the idea of seeking professional help might feel like admitting failure, while for others, it's an essential step toward growth. The decision to pursue therapy isn’t always clear-cut, and it often raises questions about commitment, compatibility, and whether both partners are truly willing to put in the work.  In this episode, we’ll explore whether couples therapy is the right choice for your relationship. Whether you’re hoping to fix a specific issue or simply strengthen your bond, understanding the role of couples therapy can help you make an informed decision. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike Mc

Making your partner feel special is essential for a healthy, thriving relationship. Often, it’s the small gestures and thoughtful actions that speak the loudest, showing him that he’s valued, appreciated, and cherished. Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or have been together for years, taking the time to make him feel special can deepen your connection and set your relationship apart from the rest. In this episode, we’ll explore practical and meaningful ways to make your man feel like he’s on top of the world. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Obsessing over an ex is something many of us experience after a breakup, but it's a habit that can keep you stuck in the past and prevent you from moving forward. While men and women often handle breakups differently, it’s common for women to replay what went wrong or check up on their ex’s social media. Is this behavior really helping, or is it keeping you from healing? In this episode, we’ll discuss whether or not it’s healthy to stay connected, and how to break free from the cycle of obsessing. We’ll cover tips for disconnecting emotionally and digitally, focusing on self-care, and getting back into the dating world. It’s time to take control of your healing and move on to better things. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In every strong relationship, shared experiences play a pivotal role in building deeper connections. Engaging in activities together not only brings joy but also strengthens the bond between partners. In this episode, we'll explore why shared hobbies are more than just fun—they're a fundamental part of a thriving relationship. We’ll discuss how finding common ground can help you grow closer and keep the spark alive in your relationship. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll dive into the big question: Should couples live together before marriage? Moving in together can be an exciting step, offering a glimpse into what life might be like long-term. However, it also comes with considerations that can significantly impact your relationship. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of living together.  Whether you’re looking for a practice run at married life or simply considering the next step in your relationship, we’ll help you weigh the factors to decide if sharing a space is the right move for you. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll be discussing gaslighting in dating. Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that can deeply affect your self-worth and sense of reality. By understanding the tactics of gaslighting and learning how to react, you can regain your confidence and maintain healthier relationships. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to get out of a bad relationship. It’s never easy to leave a relationship, especially when comfort, finances, or fear hold you back. But your happiness and well-being should always come first. Breaking free from a bad relationship can feel overwhelming, but it's essential for your well-being and future happiness. In this episode, we’ll guide you through the practical steps needed to find the strength to leave and create a new life filled with support and happiness. If you’ve been feeling stuck, we’ve got you covered! Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In today’s episode, we’ll discuss the invaluable lessons learned from past relationships. Each relationship, whether it ended in heartbreak or amicably, offers insights that can help us grow and improve our future relationships. In this episode, we’ll explore what really matters, what doesn’t, and how to prioritize self-love and effective communication. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Everyone has a unique way of feeling loved and appreciated, and by recognizing these different love languages, you can deepen your connection and foster a more fulfilling relationship. In this episode, we’ll discuss the five love languages. Understanding and effectively communicating love in a way that resonates with your partner can significantly strengthen your relationship. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss the art of balancing work and love. Both are crucial aspects of our lives, but finding the right balance can sometimes feel impossible. We will discuss strategies for prioritizing your relationship while managing a demanding career so you can maintain a healthy work-life balance and ensure both your professional and personal lives flourish. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll dive into the complexities of modern relationships and offer insights to help you navigate the dating world with confidence. Today, we're tackling a topic that everyone has an opinion on – the worst parts of dating and, more importantly, how to make it better.  Whether you’re a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss key qualities that men find attractive and desirable, and how you can embody these traits to create stronger, more fulfilling relationships Whether you're single and looking to understand men, or you’re in a relationship and want to deepen your connection, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In a world where everyone is online, you never know who you're going to meet. Some people are looking for love, others for a fling, and distinguishing between the two can be tricky. In this episode, we will discuss the importance of meeting as many people as you can, while taking your time getting to know someone before rushing into a relationship. Remember to take it all with a grain of salt.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll focus on one of the most essential aspects of any relationship – truly getting to know the person you’re with. We’ve curated a list of thoughtful and engaging questions designed to help you uncover the layers of someone’s personality, passions, and quirks. Whether you’re on a first date, in a new relationship, or simply want to deepen your understanding of your partner, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the delicate art of turning a date into a friend. Navigating this transition can be challenging, but it’s entirely possible with honest communication, mutual respect, and thoughtful actions.  Whether you've been on a few dates and realized you're better off as friends, or you simply want to maintain a meaningful connection, we’ll provide practical tips to help you make this transition smoothly and successfully Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss giving yourself a breakup pep talk. Breaking up is never easy, but it's a crucial step towards finding the happiness and fulfillment you deserve. Whether you're relieved or heartbroken, this episode will guide you through the process of healing and moving on, empowering you to embrace a brighter and more fulfilling future. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss finding ultimate satisfaction in the bedroom. From igniting sparks of desire to navigating the complexities of communication, we're here to help you on your journey toward sexual empowerment and fulfillment. Whether you're craving more excitement, seeking to unleash your inner desires, or simply aiming to enhance intimacy with your partner, we’ll provide valuable insights and practical tips to help you achieve your goals. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating after 50 means stepping into a new dating landscape, one filled with both excitement and challenges. In this episode, we’ll discuss navigating the modern dating scene for those in their golden years. Remember, it's never too find love and meaningful connections. Whether you're re-entering the dating world after a divorce, or seeking companionship in your later years, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy for the spark in a marital relationship to dim, but through intentional dating, couples can rediscover the joy of companionship. In this episode, we’ll explore the importance of prioritizing quality time together, shifting the focus away from parenthood, and infusing intimacy and excitement back into relationships.  From sharing meaningful conversations to planning romantic surprises, we'll discuss strategies for nurturing a thriving marriage through dating your spouse. Whether you're looking to reignite the passion in a long-term partnership or strengthen the foundation of your relationship, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to be interesting to men. Picture yourself as the curator of your own narrative, weaving together diverse interests, engaging conversations, and a polished appearance. Remember that charm is about embracing and enhancing your unique characteristics.  Whether you're looking to ignite sparks in a new romantic relationship or simply aiming to leave a lasting impression, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss how crafting your visual identity can profoundly impact your relationships, opportunities, and self-confidence. From the clothes you wear to the settings you choose, every aspect of your visual presence tells a story—a story that can shape perceptions and open doors to new possibilities. Your photos should do more than capture moments—they should paint a vivid picture of your multifaceted life. From fashion choices to showcasing your passions and hobbies, each image is an opportunity to express your unique personality and interests. Join us as we explore the art of storytelling through imagery. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

As the world awakens from its winter slumber, there's a sense of excitement in the air, urging us to step outside, breathe in the fresh scents of blooming flowers, and perhaps, find a connection with someone new. From blossoming romances to exciting rendezvous, this season offers opportunities to meet that special someone while enjoying the great outdoors. Whether you're single and ready to mingle or looking for fun springtime activities, we've got you covered Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss a topic that's sure to resonate – the mistakes men make at the beginning of dating. From oversharing to lacking confidence or disregarding boundaries, we're here to uncover the red flags you might encounter. Join us as we navigate the world of dating and empower you with the knowledge to spot these common mistakes. Whether you're dipping your toes back into the dating pool or seeking reassurance, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're shaking off the stigma surrounding online dating and rethinking it as a genuine way to meet someone special. Forget the stereotypes – online dating isn't just for the desperate; it's a great way to meet people with endless possibilities for meaningful connections. Dating apps and websites have revolutionized how we meet potential partners. Whether you're a seasoned online dater or just curious about dipping your toes into the virtual dating pool, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're flipping the script on traditional dating and diving into the empowering concept of dating yourself. In a world where romantic relationships often take center stage, it's easy to overlook the most important relationship of all: the one with ourselves.  We're here to shine a spotlight on the transformative power of self-love and self-discovery. We'll explore why it's crucial to prioritize nurturing your relationship with yourself, and how doing so can lead to greater happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the Dos and Don'ts of what to talk about on a first date. Filtering what you discuss is important to create a positive impression, avoid controversy, maintain mystery, and focus on genuine connection. You don’t want to have what we call diarrhea of the mouth Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into the dating scene for the first time, these insights will help you navigate the conversation minefield with ease.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss balancing dating with a hectic travel schedule. Whether you're jetting for work, exploring new destinations, or simply leading a fast-paced life, finding time for budding romance can feel like a challenge.  From setting clear expectations to making the most of the time you have together, we’ll explore practical strategies and insights for navigating the early stages of dating with a crazy travel schedule or demanding commitments. If you're trying to find a meaningful connection, but often find yourself juggling a hectic schedule, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever experienced an intense whirlwind of affection in the early stages of a relationship, only for it to fizzle out just as quickly? What lies beneath the surface of this intense affection? In today's episode, we'll discuss love bombing, which is a manipulative tactic used to gain control over another person in a relationship.  Love bombing involves showering the person with excessive affection, attention, and praise, creating an intense emotional bond that can be hard to break free from. But behind the grand gestures and constant communication lies a calculated strategy to exploit vulnerability and fulfill the love bomber's own needs for power and validation. In this episode, we'll dive into the signs of love bombing, its impact on victims, and how to establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and emotional abuse.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to F

In this episode, we’ll discuss a scenario that many of us have experienced or even feared: bumping into an ex. Whether it's at the grocery store, a social event, or even unexpectedly on the street, these encounters can stir up a whirlwind of emotions and leave us scrambling for the right response. We will explore the art of gracefully navigating these encounters with maturity and dignity and guide you through the maze of navigating unexpected run-ins with former partners. From maintaining composure and setting boundaries to post-encounter reflections, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dynamic world of texting, which is a crucial part of courtship and sets the tone for budding relationships. We'll unravel the intricacies of pre-date communication and post-date etiquette and help you master the art of texting. Whether you're a seasoned texter or new to the dating game, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the concept of losing your list – and by list, we mean the rigid dealbreakers and non-negotiables that may be limiting your potential for meaningful connections. We will explore the benefits of adopting a more open-minded approach to love and why it’s important to reevaluate your dating criteria and be open to new possibilities if you’re looking for “the one.” Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

This episode is about the four seasons - and no, we are not talking about the resort… We’ll discuss the importance of dating for four seasons before getting serious and popping the question. As the seasons change, so do our moods, our fashion choices, and even our dating habits. In this episode, we’ll explore how to navigate the ups and downs of dating throughout the year and how to know if this relationship will last a lifetime. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're diving into the crucial period before the first date – a time filled with anticipation, nerves, and endless questions.  Leading up to the first date sets the tone for what's to come. With the right preparation and mindset, it can be an exciting step toward building a meaningful connection. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dreaded friend zone – that awkward space where one person wants romance while the other remains oblivious. Escaping the friend zone is not easy, but with the right strategies and mindset, you can shift the dynamic, making him see you in a new light, and ultimately, escape the friend zone. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where something just feels off, but you can't quite put your finger on it? Welcome to today's episode, where we'll be diving into the intricacies of doubt in a relationship. Doubts in relationships are common, but they can be navigated with self-awareness, communication, and introspection. In this episode, we'll explore how to navigate through these doubts and uncertainties, whether they're rooted in internal struggles or external pressures. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll explore the delicate balance between socializing and staying composed. Whether it's a casual gathering with friends or a formal event, maintaining elegance and grace is essential for leaving a lasting impression. We'll discuss strategies for navigating social settings responsibly, particularly when alcohol is involved. From knowing your limits to asserting boundaries, we'll provide practical tips for avoiding sloppiness and ensuring your interactions reflect your best self.  Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss dating in the heart of winter. As the air turns crisp and the days grow shorter, it can be difficult to have the motivation to date. We're here to help you embrace the cold season while still navigating being single and dating. From dating adventures to cozy self-care rituals, we've curated a winter wonderland of insights to make this season your most memorable one yet. Grab a hot chocolate, snuggle up by the fireplace, and let's unravel the secrets to not just surviving but thriving in the winter. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Valentine's Day is a day of love, and we’re here to remind you that no matter your relationship status, you should celebrate in a way that brings you pure love and happiness. We'll be exploring everything from solo celebrations to couples' adventures, from gift dilemmas to outfit choices. Whether you're a Valentine's Day enthusiast or someone who prefers to keep it low-key - whether you’re single, in a budding romance, or in a long-term relationship, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

They say first impressions are everything, and we couldn't agree more! In this episode, we will discuss fashion for every occasion. Whether you’re going out for dinner, meeting your partner’s parents, or attending a sporting event, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to keep things interesting and add a dash of excitement to your love life, because let's face it, who doesn't want to keep that flame burning bright? Whether you're a seasoned couple looking to reignite the spark or in the early stages of love, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss friends with benefits. In a world where connections come in various shades, maintaining a friendship, while also indulging in some added benefits can be alluring. But is it a good idea? And how do you make sure that no one gets hurt?  We'll unravel the intricacies, share some valuable insights, and hopefully, leave you with a clearer picture of whether this unconventional relationship is right for you. From the frequency of hangouts to the complexities of gift-giving, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year. In this episode we will talk about how to start your new year off right and become the best version of yourself. Think of it as a fresh start. What do you want to do differently in the new year? Where do you want to be in your life? How can you make this the best year yet? Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will talk about how to start your new year off right and date with intention. As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year and think about what you learned from it. What were your successes? What were your challenges? What could you improve on? Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the art of kissing. Whether it's your first kiss or the tender moments shared between long-term partners, kissing plays a crucial role in a romantic connection. But what happens when the magic fades, and you think, “Is my date a bad kisser?” We’ll discuss common mistakes and how to navigate these delicate moments with finesse. Whether you’re single or want to improve your kissing, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Being single during the holidays comes with a unique set of challenges. In this episode, we're celebrating the beauty, freedom, and opportunities that come along with navigating the holiday season unattached. Remember, being single during the holidays is just one chapter in a larger story.  As we find ourselves in the heart of the holiday season, we’re embracing the joy of flying solo. Whether you're choosing to be single, going through a period of self-discovery, or just happen to find yourself solo this time around, this episode is all about empowering you to not just survive but thrive during the holidays. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will explore the challenging topic of reconnecting with an ex. Our pasts are often filled with chapters we've turned but never quite closed, so as you navigate the labyrinth of past relationships, you may find yourself thinking about rekindling an old flame.  This could be the rekindling of a high school sweetheart, reigniting a connection from your college days, or rediscovering the spark you shared with someone you briefly dated. It's a journey filled with emotion, nostalgia, and the allure of what-ifs. Whether you're currently single and considering revisiting a past relationship, or if you're simply curious about reigniting old flames, we've got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss meeting his friends for the first time and building positive relationships. When you're in a relationship, the people your partner surrounds themselves with can significantly impact your life together. It's not just about casual introductions; it's about building meaningful connections and weaving yourself into his world. Whether you're single or looking to enhance your existing relationship, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss the complex and often sensitive topic, the ticking biological clock. We'll dive into the concept of freezing eggs and how it's reshaping family planning. No matter what age you age you are, if you’re thinking about having children, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will dive into the intricate web of plus ones. Bringing your date to social occasions is filled with thrilling moments, potential pitfalls, and a myriad of emotions. From weddings to work events, we'll navigate the etiquette and drama surrounding plus ones. If you’ve ever wondered when it's the right time to bring a plus one, or if you've found yourself in a dilemma when you weren't initially invited with a guest, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Life is full of chapters. Some are filled with joy and love, and others... well, they teach you invaluable lessons. In this episode, we’ll address Dating After Divorce. For many, this can be a whirlwind of emotions. From tackling societal stigmas to ensuring you're 'conversation ready' for a dinner date — there's a lot to consider. Embrace your new journey with optimism and confidence. Whether it's crafting that perfect 'date night' outfit or rediscovering old hobbies, there's plenty of excitement on this journey too. So, if you're navigating the post-divorce dating scene, or you know someone who is, or you're just curious about it, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss that big, daunting, pack-up-your-life kind of move - out of state and into new territories for the love of your life. It's thrilling, nerve-wracking, and loaded with a mix of emotions. As with all great adventures, there are road bumps. How do you manage leaving behind friends and family? What about settling into a new job? Building a new circle of friends? And, heaven forbid, what if you realize you're... unhappy after all that? Whether you're considering a big move, have just made one, or simply love hearing about love stories, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode we'll dive into a subject that touches many people: the role of parental influence on our partner choices, especially during adulthood. While parents provide a unique perspective, everyone should find a balance between valuing that input and asserting their own feelings and opinions. Join us as we explore the delicate balance between honoring the invaluable insights of our parents and embracing our own opinions and desires. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever felt more... cuddly as the temperature drops? There might be a reason for that! Cuffing Season is that time of the year, typically during the colder months, when singles find themselves longing for a partner to cozy up with. It's that time of the year when many people have an urge to be ‘cuffed’ or tied down by a serious relationship. Think of it as nature’s way of saying, ‘It’s cold, find someone warm!’ But is it just about the temperature drop? There's an emotional aspect. As winter festivities kick in, from Thanksgiving dinners to New Year countdowns, there's a certain romanticism about sharing these moments. let's be honest, no one wants to be the only single one at the family gathering…again! Whether you’re single or “cuffed,” we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets

There are many different types of relationships, some are monogamous, and others are not. Ethical non-monogamy, or ENM, refers to a relationship where one or both partners are allowed to have multiple partners. Although we have never had a client looking for this type of relationship, we have had clients who have asked if they can see two women at the same time. It is important to communicate what you are looking for so you don’t get hurt. If you want an exclusive, monogamous relationship, communicate that! If you’re open to trying ethical non-monogamy, or you are single and on dating apps but never knew what ENM meant in someone’s profile, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

The thrill of a stolen glance across the boardroom, or a spontaneous after-work drink - dating in the workplace is a lot more common than you think! According to Forbes, over 60% of people have had romance in the workplace. From the highs of romantic lunches to the lows of awkward elevator rides post-breakup, workplace romance sure is a rollercoaster. Love might be blind, but if you enter into workplace romance, make sure your eyes are wide open. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Benching, ghosting, breadcrumbing – there's a whole dictionary of terms in today's dating world! In this episode, we’ll discuss benching, where someone keeps you in a state of uncertainty; close enough to stay connected but far enough to leave you wondering about their true intentions. What is benching exactly? Imagine being a player on a sports team, but you're never allowed off the bench. In the world of dating, it's when someone keeps you around just enough to have you as a backup option but never really commits. Whether you suspect you've been benched, or you want to understand the complexities of the dating field, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “actions speak louder than words,” and it’s true! It's not just about what someone says; it's about what they do that truly reveals their intentions and commitment.  In this episode, we’ll discuss actions to look out for that show  interest, build trust, and foster a deep connection. Whether you’re newly dating someone, or ready to get back out there, we’ve got you covered!Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We meet so many women who miss out on the opportunity of a great man simply because he lacks a plan. But here's the question: If everything else about him is perfect, would you be willing to teach him?  In this episode we'll explore taking the lead, setting non-negotiables, and gracefully encouraging the man to step up without being aggressive. Whether you’ve met a great man who lacks a plan, or are ready to meet someone new, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode we will discuss one of the most significant milestones in any relationship: meeting the parents. This can be a nerve-wracking experience filled with anticipation and excitement. When is the right time? How can you make a positive impression? Whether you're in a new relationship or preparing to take that significant step, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

We often seek validation and fulfillment through relationships, hoping that someone else will complete us. The thing is, true happiness and fulfillment in relationships can only be achieved when you love yourself. Before you can fully give your heart to someone else, it's essential to love yourself unconditionally. It's not about being selfish or egotistical; it's about recognizing your own worth, embracing your strengths, and accepting your imperfections. In this episode, we'll explore ways to shift your mindset to help you love yourself on your journey towards finding and maintaining a healthy, fulfilling relationship.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss etiquette during the early stages of dating. From planning the date to handling the bill, we'll guide you through the initial dates with grace and poise. Whether you're confident in your manners or wondering how to improve your dating etiquette, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Traveling alone is not just about exploring new places; it's an opportunity to get to know yourself and create memories that will shape your perception of the world. In this episode we will discuss the power of solo travel and its impact on personal growth, self-discovery, and romantice.  Who knows where love may bloom when you have the attitude that you can fall in love anywhere? Whether you're a seasoned solo traveler or considering taking that first step towards traveling alone, we’ve got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Ah, summer—the season of sun-kissed adventures and the promise of love is in the air. Summer is a time when sparks ignite and new connections sizzle under the golden sun. In this episode, we'll embrace the magic of summer love. We'll discuss summer flings and the potential for meaningful connections. Whether you're in a summer romance or yearning for that sweet summer connection, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever had that feeling of nervousness at the idea of jumping into a serious relationship? Or, better yet, you're really hitting it off with someone, and just when you think things are going great, they pull back because the idea of commitment freaks them out. Well, guess what? You’re not alone! In this episode, we'll discuss the fear of commitment and tips and tricks to overcome it. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Dating isn't always rainbows, butterflies, and chemistry, sometimes, it's about recognizing when something isn't quite right and having the courage to address it. Breakups, especially in the early stages of dating, should respect the feelings of both parties and leave no room for misunderstandings. It's all about being honest, clear, and kind. So, whether you're currently facing this dilemma, or just want to be prepared for future relationships, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠⁠ Books - ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Lingerie has often been associated with sensuality and romance, but whether or not to wear it is a personal decision that depends on your comfort level and desires. In this episode, we'll share tips to empower you to embrace your inner beauty, nurture your self-confidence, and enhance your intimate experiences. Whether you're a lingerie expert or someone who's just starting to explore, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books - ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we‘ll explore effective communication skills that are crucial for successful dating. We’ll provide you with tips and tricks for active listening, body language, showing genuine interest, and more!  So if you’re here to enhance your dating journey or build lasting connections, we’ve got you covered! Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll discuss how to stand out from the crowd in the dating world. We’ll teach you the importance of confidence, authenticity, and embracing your uniqueness. We'll provide you with tips and tricks to make a lasting impression on your dates. So, if you’re new to dating, or been dating for awhile, we’ve got you covered!  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss long distance relationships and how to make them thrive. In today's world, distance and separation have become all too common, and many couples find themselves in the challenging position of trying to maintain a meaningful relationship from afar. With the right strategies, it's possible to make long distance relationships work. So, whether you're in a long distance relationship now, or considering one in the future, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll take you behind the scenes for an exclusive look into our world. With decades of experience helping people find love, we're excited to share with you the ins and outs of matchmaking. From how we find clients and matches, to the delicate situations we encounter, like delivering both good and bad news, we'll cover it all.  You’ll learn what it truly takes to be a successful matchmaker. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Traveling with a new partner for the first time can be exciting and nerve-wracking. It's an opportunity to create new memories, deepen your connection, and explore new places together. It can also reveal new sides of each other and put your relationship to the test. In this episode we'll discuss some tips for traveling with a new partner for the first time. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Red flags are warning signs that something may be wrong with the relationship or the person you are dating. In this episode, we'll discuss common red flags and tips on how to identify and avoid these red flags in your own dating life so that you can make healthier, happier relationship choices. Highlights (01:19) - Communication (lack of and too much) (02:39) - Dishonesty (03:47) - Hot and cold behavior (04:20) - Lack of empathy/emotional intelligence (04:45) - Disrespectful to you or others (05:40) - Narcissism  (06:19) - Controlling behavior (07:22) - Relationship with others (07:46) - Substance abuse (08:38) - Lack of ambition or motivation (09:07) - The way you deserve to be treated Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll share advice and tips for newly single, divorced, or widowed people who are ready to get back in the dating game and find love again. Whether you're nervous to be with someone new, wondering how to overcome your fear of rejection, or how to communicate your intentions to potential partners, we’ve got you covered. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (01:00) - How do you know if you’re ready to start dating again? (02:22) - What advice do you have for someone newly dating? (03:26) - Where can you meet someone? (05:16) - Should you be honest about your past relationship on a first or second date? (05:51) - How do you navigate dating with kids, if you have them? (07:06) - How and when do you communicate boundaries and expectations in a new relationship? (07:57) - How do you deal with rejection and keep a positive attitude when dating? (09:19) - What is it like to sleep with someone new after you were with one person for so long? (10:27) - How can you avoid

In the world of dating apps, it can be tough to make a memorable impression and stand out from the crowd. In this episode, we'll share tips and tricks to help you create a standout online dating profile that will increase your chances of finding love. From choosing the right photos to crafting an engaging bio, we've got you covered.  Highlights (01:04) - Which pictures you should include (04:11) - Showcasing your passions and interests (04:53) - Creating a standout bio (07:14) - Highlighting your best self (08:21) - Less is more (10:42) - Lying about your age (1126) - Dealbreakers (11:45) - What do avoid Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss how to be thoughtful in a relationship. Whether you're in a new relationship, have been together for awhile, or are married, there are always ways to show your partner that you care. We will provide tips on how to be thoughtful, from small, everyday acts of kindness to things you should avoid. We will teach you how to make your partner feel loved and appreciated. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (01:08) - What are some ways to show thoughtfulness towards someone you're newly dating? (05:36) - How can you figure out what your partner finds thoughtful early on in a relationship? (06:33) - How can you continue to show thoughtfulness towards your partner as the relationship progresses? (09:04) - How can you show thoughtfulness towards your partner when you're physically apart? (10:15) - What are common mistakes that people make when trying to be thoughtful? (10:48) - How can you balance being thoughtful and not overwhelming your partner? (11:28) -

In this episode, we explore age gap relationships. This type of relationship has been around for centuries, yet is still very controversial and misunderstood. Age gap relationships can be both beautiful and challenging, so it's important to understand both sides before you judge or enter into one. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (01:02) - What is an age gap relationship? (01:27) - Does age make a difference in romantic relationships? (03:08) - Is there an ideal age gap between men and women when dating? (04:31) - Why do men want to date younger women? (05:15) - What are the pros of age gap relationships? (06:15) - What are the cons of age gap relationships? (07:49) - If you are going to enter an age gap relationship, what factors should you consider? (09:31) - Does having (or not having) children affect age gap relationships? (11:23) - If you decide to enter into an age gap relationship, how do you navigate it? (12:27) - Do age gap relationships work? Website: www.janisspind

In this episode, we'll discuss tips on how to get through a breakup or the loss of a partner. If you're widowed, going through a divorce, or recovering from a past relationship, the pain and emotions can be overwhelming. We will provide guidance on how to move forward in a healthy way. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights (00:59) - What should someone do to help them begin the healing process? (02:38) - What are some healthy ways to cope with loneliness and sadness? (04:09) - Where can you meet single friends that you can go out with that relate to what you’re going through? (04:45) - How can you rebuild your self-esteem and confidence and make you feel sexy again? (06:18) - How can you rediscover your own identity and sense of purpose? (07:11) - How can you learn from this to become a better partner in future relationships? (07:50) - How can you move on without feeling guilty or regretful? (09:29) - Should you maintain a healthy friendship with your ex? If yes, how do you do it

When you’re single, you need to keep an open mind and have no shame when it comes to dating. In this episode, we will talk about how to have the mentality that anyone could be the man of your dreams. We will discuss how long and how serious it had to be to be considered off limits, how to turn a date into a friend, and how to expand your dating network. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights: (1:05) Off limits men: how long did they date and how serious was it (2:30) Wingman party: every woman brings a man to expand their network (3:57) potluck dinner party: evey woman bring a man and a dish (4:33) Someone trash could be your treasure: Turn him into a friend! Just because someone isn’t the man of your dreams doesn’t mean he isn’t the man of another woman’s dreams (6:18) If you’re not into him, how you respond in your “thank you” text makes a difference! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get

First dates don't need to be stressful, they should be fun! On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss the ideal first date and how to make a great first impression. First dates determine whether or not you have enough chemistry and attraction to go on a second date - keep them light and airy. Learn what topics to talk about and which to avoid, how long a first date should last, how much to drink, who should pay, and more! Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights: (00:50) - First impressions are everything - make them count!  (02:21) - How many drinks are too many? (03:15) - What should you talk about on a first date? (04:45) - Topics to avoid on a first date. (05:48) - Who should pay on a first date (don't do the fake reach). (07:20) - How long should a first date last? (8:10) - Should you kiss on a first date? (8:57) - Should you text after the first date? Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious

In this episode we will discuss when you should sleep with someone for the first time. Sex is a big step in any relationship, and it’s important to make sure that you’re ready and comfortable with the person. This podcast will help you understand yourself and your partner, as well as navigate the pressures and considerations that come along with the decision to have sex for the first time. Episode highlights and time stamps can be found below. Highlights (01:28) - When should you sleep with someone and why does sex complicate things? (02:49) - Should you talk to your partner about sex, or just do it if it feels right? (05:36) - What advice do you have for people who feel pressured to have sex before they’re ready? (06:33) - Should you have the exclusivity conversation before sleeping with someone? (07:49) - Should you use a condom? (08:36) - What if he doesn’t try to wear a condom, what should you say? (10:20) - What if you’re not very sexually experienced? (11:12) - Should alcohol be involved and

It’s good to have standards, but you need to be open minded and give people a chance. On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss realistic expectations and how to know if you're being too picky. Is he too short? Bald? Didn't go to the right school? Doesn't make enough money? How he makes you feel is what matters most. Learn about setting realistic non-negotiables and reasonable expectations. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.   Highlights: (00:58) - How to know if you're being too picky (04:34) - How to know if you're emotionally available (05:40) - How to know if you're ready to get married (06:27) - What can you learn from past relationships? (07:41) - The magic mirror: Are you realistic with your expectations? (09:46) - What should you look for in a partner? (11:22) - Setting realistic nonnegotiables.   Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love i

Modern dating comes with complexities. In this episode, we will dive into the topic of "situationships," a term used to describe a type of undefined and casual relationship that falls somewhere between a traditional relationship and a one-night stand. We'll discuss what makes a situationship unique, the pros and cons of being in one, and how to navigate the confusing waters of this type of relationship. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.  Highlights:  (1:11) What is a situationship and how do you know if you're in one?  (1:58) Why would someone want to be in a situationship?  (3:48) How does someone get into a situationship?  (5:26) If you're in a situationship, should you treat it like a relationship?  (6:18) What are the challenges of being in a situationship? (8:09) How do you move on from someone you weren't dating in the first place?  (8:38) How do you avoid being in a situationship?  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook/TikTok: @janisandcarl

On this episode, Janis and Carly will teach you how to prep for a first date so that you look and feel your best. Learn how to stand out, get him to ask you out, the perfect outfit, makeup, location, and more. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights: (01:12) - How to get a man to ask you out when you've been texting for awhile. (02:35) - The perfect first date: coffee, drinks, or dinner? (04:30) - Who should plan the first date? A man with a plan. (05:02) - What if he schedules the first date somewhere inconvenient? (06:53) - Should you be available on a weekend for a first date? (07:49) - How to put yourself in the best mindset before the first date. (09:50) - Look your best: the perfect first date outfit for you.  (12:00) - Makeup: less is more.  Website  Connect: Instagram Facebook Books: Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Title card photo credit: Mike McG

Men are everywhere! From the gym to coffee shops, this episode will teach you how to put yourself out there, where to meet a man, and how to approach him so he thinks he picked you up. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.  Highlights:  (00:55) - Are dating apps a good place to meet men?  (01:37) - Where to meet men in real life.  (03:58) - Take up new hobbies.  (05:07) - The hello challenge.  (07:16) - Tips for putting yourself out there.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on social media: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

As we ring in the new year, it's a great time to reflect on the past year. In this episode we will talk about how to start your new year off right and become the best version of yourself. Think of it as a fresh start. What do you want to do differently in the new year? Where do you want to be in your life? How can you make this the best year yet? Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below. Highlights: (1:24) - Set goals: personal or professional (1:44) - Get organized: declutter your clothing, friends, and more. Get rid of anything that adds negativity (2:23) - Self-care and mental health: exercise, meditation, grooming (5:03) - Sleep: make a date with yourself to be well rested (6:35) - Dating: Want a boyfriend? Join apps and make dating your priority (7:22) - Spice up your wardrobe: Do your clothes make you feel fabulous? If not, donate/sell them (8:19) - Hobbies: Do more of what brings you joy. Make your life as full and rich as it can be. (9:22) - Learn something new: podcasts, languages, cooki

Men want the total package, they want someone who excites them, a woman who has it all. On this episode, Janis and Carly will discuss what men want. You will learn about the Four B's (beauty, brains, body, and balance) and how to become the best version of yourself. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.   Highlights (00:46) - What it means to have it all.  (01:03) - Beauty: how to make yourself more beautiful on the inside and out.  (02:35) - Brains: book vs street smarts and how to make yourself even smarter.  (04:12) - Body: lead a healthy lifestyle and dressing for your body type.  (06:23) - Balance: having a full life and how to make yourself happier and more interesting.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Social Media: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Meet America's top Matchmakers. Learn how they got into the business, hear their craziest stories, how the pandemic changed the matchmaking industry, and why they love what they do. Episode highlights and timestamps can be found below.     Highlights:   (00:38) - What is a Matchmaker?   (01:03) - Roles in the mother/daughter company.  (02:19) - How they got into matchmaking.  (05:05) - How the pandemic impacted business.   (08:58) - What they love most about their job.   (10:24) - Craziest professional experience.   Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Social Media: @janisandcarlyspindel Books - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Title card photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography